High Tea Attire

 

The "high" part of "high tea" has come to mean an elegant afternoon tea in America. Don't be duped into wearing an ornate and fancy outfit because of this misconception. Instead, dress appropriately for the occasion in the ways listed below.

Finding a Fashionable Dress

Dresses are an excellent choice for high tea because they are both comfortable and fashionable. When selecting the right dress, look for a pattern that is both flattering and eye-catching, but avoid anything that appears overly busy. Color will also be important here, so choose shades that complement your skin tone.

High Neckline and Flared Hem

In terms of style, ensure that the bodice of the dress is high enough to be appropriate but low and relaxed enough to appear casual. Instead of figure-hugging designs, a flared hem is also cute and comfortable.

Tea Dress

A tea dress (also known as a tea gown) is ideal for high tea because of its hemline that falls above the ankle and below the knee. Combine it with an endearing quilted cross-body bag, whether it's short or long-sleeved, for fashionable elegance.

Long Maxi Dress

Long, floaty maxi dresses keep you covered up for the occasion while still looking effortlessly chic. If you have a strapless summer maxi dress that you love, is a great color, and fits perfectly, but you're worried about going without sleeves or straps, you could always pair it with a matching cardigan.

Rocking a Sweater Set

A sweater set is always a good idea for high tea because it can be worn with a skirt or pants while still looking feminine and pretty. Furthermore, if the tea is served in an air-conditioned room, the sweater will keep you warm.

Consider Color

Don't just pair a tank top with a pretty cardigan; make sure your sweater set matches. Choose a color that is both flattering on you and appropriate for the occasion. Some good options are:

• Teal
• Green
• Berry
• Soft rose
• Violet

Shades of black and white are fine, but these colors may look a bit stark.

Embracing Feminine Skirts

Skirts look great with sweater sets, adorned tank tops, and printed blouses. The general rule is that your skirt should sit at or below the knee to be considered appropriate.

Pencil Skirt

Tailored pencil skirts are appropriate for the occasion because they are considered formal. If your skirt is very form fitting, make sure to sit in it before taking tea. You don't want to have to rely on friends or family for assistance!

Flared Hem

A standout printed skirt with a flared hem is a safe and practical option that you can dress up with a black shirt, blouse, or cami to make a serious style statement.

Flowing Maxi Skirt

If you prefer a more feminine look, choose a long, free-flowing maxi skirt with romantic ruffles or a sassy slit. Choose between a plain, muted version that can be dressed up with a bright blouse and a patterned version that can be paired with neutrals for a classic, refined look.

Picking Out the Right Pants

Wearing pants to high tea is acceptable, but avoid shorts or cropped versions above the knee.

Consider Season

To make the right impression, all high tea pants should be tailored. Furthermore, the color and fabric of the pant should be appropriate for the season. In other words, wear linen in the summer and heavier fabrics like wool in the winter.

Are Jeans Suitable?

Is it appropriate to wear jeans to high tea? Both yes and no. There is no hard and fast rule that says you can't wear jeans, especially if they are dark and tailored. However, keep in mind that some hotels, such as the Waldorf Astoria in New York, still require men to wear jackets to high tea, so consider the setting carefully. You want to be noticed for your keen fashion sense, not because you appear inappropriate.

Accessories

Accessories can make or break an outfit, so choose yours with care.

Jewelry

Jewelry is always welcome, but avoid wearing too many pieces at once. Bracelets and small earrings, as well as an interesting necklace that complements your outfit, are appropriate. If you find yourself wearing a necklace, earrings, and a bracelet right before going to the tea room, remove at least one item.

Shoes

Shoes are an important part of your outfit because they express who you are and what your personality is. For high tea, avoid sneakers in favor of classic ballet flats. If you like heels, avoid stilettos in favor of stacked styles. Pretty sandals also work well and complement a wide range of outfits.

Relax and Have Fun

High tea is a special occasion that you won't soon forget, so dress for the occasion in clothing that fits your body well and flatters your shape. Above all, select an outfit that is ladylike while also reflecting your personality.